|Breastfeeding is the natural, physiologic way of feeding infants and young
children, and human milk is the milk made specifically for human infants. Formulas made from cow's milk or
soybeans (most formulas, even "designer formulas") are only superficially similar, and advertising which
states otherwise is misleading. Breastfeeding should be easy and trouble free for most mothers. A good start helps
to ensure breastfeeding is a happy experience for both mother and baby.
The vast majority of mothers are perfectly capable of breastfeeding their babies exclusively
for about six months. In fact, most mothers produce more than enough milk. Unfortunately, outdated hospital
routines based on bottle feeding still predominate in too many health care institutions and make breastfeeding
difficult, even impossible, for too many mothers and babies. For breastfeeding to be well and properly
established, a good start in the early few days can be crucial. Admittedly, even with a terrible start, many
mothers and babies manage.
The trick to breastfeeding is getting the baby to latch on well. A baby who latches on well,
gets milk well. A baby who latches on poorly has more difficulty getting milk, especially if the supply is low. A
poor latch is similar to giving a baby a bottle with a nipple hole that is too small
- the bottle is full of milk,
but the baby will not get much. When a baby is latching on poorly, he may also cause the mother nipple pain. And
if he does not get milk well, he will usually stay on the breast for long periods, thus aggravating the pain.
Unfortunately anyone can say that the baby is latched on well, even if he isn't. Too many people who should know
better just don't know what a good latch is. Here are a few ways breastfeeding can be made easy:
1. A proper latch is crucial to success. This is the key to successful breastfeeding.
Unfortunately, too many mothers are being "helped" by people who don't know what a proper latch is. If
you are being told your two day old baby's latch is good despite your having very sore nipples, be skeptical, and
ask for help from someone else who knows. Before you leave the hospital, you should be shown that your baby is
latched on properly, and that he is actually getting milk from the breast and that you know how to know he is
getting milk from the breast (open mouth wide - pause - close mouth type of suck). See also the videos on how to latch a baby
on (as well as other videos). If you and the baby are leaving hospital not knowing this, get experienced help
quickly (see handout When Latching). Some staff in the hospital will tell mothers that if the
breastfeeding is painful, the latch is not good (usually true), so that the mother should take the baby off and
latch him on again. This is not a good idea. The pain usually settles, and the latch should be fixed on the other
side or at the next feeding. Taking the baby off the breast and latching him on again and again only multiplies
the pain and the damage.
2. The baby should be at the breast immediately after birth. The vast majority of
newborns can be at the breast within minutes of birth. Indeed, research has shown that, given the chance, many
babies only minutes old will crawl up to the breast from the mother's abdomen, latch on and start breastfeeding
all by themselves. This process may take up to an hour or longer, but the mother and baby should be given this
time together to start learning about each other. Babies who "self-attach" run into far fewer
breastfeeding problems. This process does not take any effort on the mother's part, and the excuse that it cannot
be done because the mother is tired after labor is nonsense, pure and simple. Incidentally, studies have also
shown that skin-to-skin contact between mothers and babies keeps the baby as warm as an incubator. Incidentally,
many babies do not latch on and breastfeed during this time. Generally, this is not a problem, and there is no
harm in waiting for the baby to start breastfeeding. The skin to skin contact is good for the baby and the mother
even if the baby does not latch on.
3. The mother and baby should room in together. There is absolutely no medical reason
for healthy mothers and babies to be separated from each other, even for short periods.
- Health facilities that have routine separations of mothers and babies after birth are
years behind the times, and the reasons for the separation often have to do with letting parents know who is
in control (the hospital) and who is not (the parents). Often, bogus reasons are given for separations. One
example is that the baby passed meconium before birth. A baby who passes meconium and is fine a few minutes
after birth will be fine and does not need to be in an incubator for several hours' "observation".
- There is no evidence that mothers who are separated from their babies are better rested.
On the contrary, they are more rested and less stressed when they are with their babies. Mothers and babies
learn how to sleep in the same rhythm. Thus, when the baby starts waking for a feed, the mother is also
starting to wake up naturally. This is not as tiring for the mother as being awakened from deep sleep, as she
often is if the baby is elsewhere when he wakes up. If the mother is shown how to feed the baby while both are
lying down side by side, the mother is better rested.
- The baby shows long before he starts crying that he is ready to feed. His breathing may
change, for example. Or he may start to stretch. The mother, being in light sleep, will awaken, her milk will
start to flow and the calm baby will be content to nurse. A baby who has been crying for some time before
being tried on the breast may refuse to take the breast even if he is ravenous. Mothers and babies should be
encouraged to sleep side by side in hospital. This is a great way for mothers to rest while the baby nurses.
Breastfeeding should be relaxing, not tiring.
4. Artificial nipples should not be given to the baby. There seems to be some
controversy about whether "nipple confusion" exists. Babies will take whatever gives them a rapid flow
of fluid and may refuse others that do not. Thus, in the first few days, when the mother is normally producing
only a little milk (as nature intended), and the baby gets a bottle from which he gets rapid flow, the baby will
tend to prefer the rapid flow method. You don't have to be a rocket scientist to figure that one out, though many
health professionals, who are supposed to be helping you, don't seem to be able to manage it. Note, it is not the
baby who is confused. Nipple confusion includes a range of problems, including the baby not taking the breast as
well as he could and thus not getting milk well and/or the mother getting sore nipples. Just because a baby will
"take both" does not mean that the bottle is not having a negative effect. Since there are now
alternatives available if the baby needs to be supplemented (see handout #5, Using a Lactation Aid, and handout #8
Finger Feeding) why use an artificial nipple?
5. No restriction on length or frequency of breastfeeding. A baby who drinks well
will not be on the breast for hours at a time. Thus, if he is, it is usually because he is not latching on well
and not getting the milk that is available. Get help to fix the baby's latch, and use compression to get the baby
more milk (handout #15, Breast Compression). Compression works very well in the first few days to get the
colostrum flowing well. This, not a pacifier, not a bottle, not taking the baby to the nursery, will help.
6. Supplements of water, sugar water, or formula are rarely needed. Most supplements
could be avoided by getting the baby to take the breast properly and thus get the milk that is available. If you
are being told you need to supplement without someone having observed you breastfeeding, ask for someone to help
who knows what they are doing. There are rare indications for supplementation, but often supplements are suggested
for the convenience of the hospital staff. If supplements are required, they should be given by lactation aid at
the breast (see handout #5), not cup, finger feeding, syringe or bottle. The best supplement is your own colostrum.
It can be mixed with 5% sugar water if you are not able to express much at first. Formula is hardly ever necessary
in the first few days.
7. Free formula samples and formula company literature are not gifts. There is only
one purpose for these "gifts" and that is to get you to use formula. It is very effective, and it is
unethical marketing. If you get any from any health professional, you should be wondering about his/her knowledge
of breastfeeding and his/her commitment to breastfeeding. "But I need formula because the baby is not getting
enough!" Maybe, but more likely you weren't given good help and the baby is simply not getting the milk that
is available. Even if you need formula, nobody should be suggesting a particular brand and giving you free
samples. Get good help. Formula samples are not help.
Under some circumstances, it may be impossible to start breastfeeding early. However, most
"medical reasons" (maternal medication, for example) are not true reasons for stopping or delaying
breastfeeding, and you are getting misinformation. Get good help. Premature babies can start breastfeeding much,
much earlier than they do in many health facilities. In fact, studies are now quite definite that it is less
stressful for a premature baby to breastfeed than to bottle feed. Unfortunately, too many health professionals
dealing with premature babies do not seem to be aware of this.