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The
Origins of Torture in Endured Child Abuse
by Alice Miller, Ph.D. |
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Many people have claimed to
be appalled by the acts of perversion committed by American
soldiers on adult people, Iraqi prisoners. Amazingly, I
have never heard of any such reaction in response to the
occasional attempts to expose similar practices committed towards children
as for instance in British and American schools. There, these
practices come under the heading of "education." But the
cruelty is the same. The world appears to be surprised that such
brutality should rear its head among the American forces. After
all, America presents itself to the international public as the
guardian of world peace. There is an explanation for all this, but
hardly anyone wants to hear it.
It is definitely a good
thing that light has been cast on the situation and that the media
have exposed this lie for what it is. Basically it runs as
follows: We are a civilized, freedom-loving nation and bring
democracy and independence to the whole world. Under this motto
the Americans forced their way into Iraq with devastating results
and still insist that they are exporting cultural values. But now
it turns out that alongside their bombs and missiles the
well-drilled, smartly dressed soldiers are carrying a huge arsenal
of pent-up rage around with them, invisible on the outside,
invisible for themselves, lurking deep down within, but
unmistakably dangerous.
Where does this suppressed
rage come from, this need to torment, humiliate, mock, and abuse
helpless human beings (prisoners and children as well)? What are
these outwardly tough soldiers avenging themselves for? And where
have they learnt such behavior? First as little children taught
obedience by means of physical "correction," then in
school, where they served as the defenseless objects of the sadism
of some of their teachers, and finally in their time as recruits,
treated like dirt by their superiors so that they could finally
acquire the highly dubious ability to take anything meted out to
them and qualify as "tough."
The thirst for vengeance
does not come from nowhere. It has a clearly identifiable cause.
The thirst for vengeance has its origins in infancy, when children
are forced to suffer in silence and put up with the cruelty
inflicted on them in the name of upbringing. They learn how to
torment others from their parents, and later from their teachers
and superiors. It is nothing other than systematic instruction by
example on how to destroy others. Yet many people believe that it
has no evil consequences. As if a child were a container that can
be emptied from time to time. But the human brain is not a
container. The things we learn at an early stage stay with us in
later life. |
| It is true that war
unleashes latent aggression. But to be unleashed it has to be
already there. |
In my recent book Die Revolte des Körpers
(The Body Never Lies) appeared in Germany in March 2004, I
pointed out that in 22 American states children and adolescents
can be beaten, humiliated, and sometimes exposed to outright
sadism without this having any legal consequences. Such treatment
is equivalent to genuine torture. But it is not called so. It goes
by the name of education, discipline, leadership. These practices
are actively supported by most religions. There is no protest
against it, except on some Internet websites. But the Internet is
also full of advertisements for whips and other devices for
punishing small children and making them into God-fearing
individuals so that God will approve of them and give them His
love. The scandal in Iraq shows what becomes of these children
when they reach adulthood. The perverted soldiers are the fruits
of an education that actively instills violence, meanness, and
perversion into young people. |
| The media quote
psychological experts who contend that the brutality displayed by
the American soldiers is a result of the stress caused by war. It
is true that war unleashes latent aggression. But to be unleashed
it has to be already there. It would be impossible for individuals
who have not been exposed to violence very early, either at home
or at school, to abuse and mock defenseless prisoners. They simply
couldn't do it. We know from the history of the last World War
that many conscripted soldiers were able to show a human face,
even in the stress of war, if they had grown up without being
exposed to violence. Many accounts of the war and the conditions
in the camps tell us that even such extreme stress will not
necessarily turn adults into perverted individuals.
Perversion has a long, obscure history
invariably rooted in the childhood of the individual. It is hardly
surprising that these histories are usually concealed from the
eyes of society. People who have been taught to obey by having
violence inflicted on them have very good reasons to avoid being
reminded of the sufferings they went through in childhood and
prevent the suppressed facts from ever emerging into the light of
day. Many prefer to submit to whippings in S/M clubs, which they
claim to enjoy, rather than ask themselves why they indulge in
such perversions. In our society the cult of the unconscious still
holds sway.
It is not true that we all carry in us the
"beast," as some psychological experts claim. Only
people who were treated in a perverse way, but deny the fact, will
seek scapegoats on whom they can unconsciously take out their
rage, telling in interviews they did it only "just for
fun" (exactly as their abusing "innocent" parents
might have declared). Or they destroy themselves by taking
substances to ease the pain. Children, of course, are unable to
bear the pain of their victimization or understand that crime is
being committed to them. But as adults they can learn to
sympathize with the wounded child and, by becoming conscious, they
can free themselves (and the world) from the "beast"
within. |
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© Alice
Miller May 2004
Reprinting of any part of this article is allowed only by the express
written permission of Alice
Miller. |
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